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A little info on Awakenings :)
Hey everyone, not been active on here for a while. Been having some issues to deal with :)
Alright, this will be a "little" rant. NOTE: I put quotations around "little" because if anyone has seen any of my rants, they are far from little, *giggle*
Alright, so I've been seeing lately that a lot of people are asking "Am I awakening" "How do I know if I am awakening" etc. etc. There are various types of questions that have been asked.
Okay,first of all.. the teenage body is a marvelous thing full of hormones, which makes our bodies start to act very odd, you know the usual things, you get acne and other wonderful things.
Alright, well this is not limited to having weird cravings, or having mood swings, fatigue, everything. All of that is completely normal.
A lot of people are on here thinking that they are going through an awakening, but in all reality they are just going through puberty. Puberty doesn't end until your 20's for some. So, it doesn't end when you get all of the basic stuff, nooo my friend, it goes a lot farther than that. Most of it is mental. Which is why parts of your brain are still growing. Your skeletal system is still growing, so is your skull. Sutures do not close up until your 30s I believe, correct me if I am wrong.
Of course, this is not a discussion on puberty, well.. not all of it.
Like I said above, a lot of people think that they are vampires awakening on here. Most of that is not really true. If you research Anemia or Diabetes, you will see that a few cases the people actually crave blood. It deals with the system of your body wanting what it can get in a very short time. Which is why people with high blood sugar want water or are thirsty, because they are trying to flush sugar out of the system. Like I said, the body is a very interesting thing, especially the teenage body.
Bodies, when they are full of hormones, will cause it to go through random changes, especially those having to deal with pain. Growing pains are the worst, but a lot of people get them. It does not mean that you are turning into a creature of the night, or a wolf. Sorry folks, it is true.
I do believe that a lot of people want things to be different in their lives, but at the same time, I think that people need to look around, and see what they really have. Face life, and in return, you might actually start to see how magical it really is. Some people want a way out, but in reality I think that rhey are just scared, and they will never know how their lives really could be.
If you talk to your doctor about some things, they will not think of you crazy, if you talk to them correctly. I think that many of you are just looking to things to make yourself feel more important, and some of you don't even need that. Most of the people on here I've met are very interesting wonderful people, but they don't even realize it themselves.
In all reality, yes, otherkin exist, without a doubt, but I think that people read too much into things before they really get a chance to think of anything else. Hormones do cause serious changes, like mentioned above. That is why people get depressed, and don't know how to handle things. Actually, there is a part of your brain that does not stop growing until you hit your early 20s. It deals with rational thought. Which means, that you do not take the time to really think about things, which makes it harder for you to think things through. It could be the reason why so many teenage suicides happen. They do not think that there is a way out of it. I think that the human brain is more complex that anything that I've seen.
Although, otherkin, like I mentioned, they are real. It does not mean that you are not in a human body. 99.9% of all otherkin are HUMAN. They are reincarnated souls in human bodies, Which means that they deal with the same thing as humans do, and in all reality, the awakening is just an intensified form of puberty, the type of puberty that I was talking about. Nothing more really. It's just part of growing up.
Vampires, when they are awakening, that is when their energy starts to pour out, because they are so stressed. Most vampires, are just overly stressed humans. That is what the real truth is. Fairies, they are more in touch with their souls, which is why they use magick more giftedly than humans, and that they are stronger, and maintain their fairy-like appearance. That's it. That is why their backs hurt. They don't get real wings, sorry to burst people's bubbles.
By the way, all of the people complaining about the RPing on here, let them have their fun. It does not really matter. They will find others, and leave the main forum, and if not, then just look over it. Don't complain, it draws more attention to yourself.
So, anyways, awakenings aren't very mystical, hmm? Awakenings are more mental than anything, actually, puberty, while it has some physical changes, is more mental than anything. Like I said, awakenings are more just intensified puberty.
Barely any person on this site is an otherkin, especially if someone claims to be a hybrid. It makes no sense, in all honesty. Yes, it can happen, but it is very rare. I think that others need to really meditate and go to the doctor and get check-ups. It could really help them in the future, and then they can really sort through their life and see what is real and what is not. I think that everyone would really benefit from this.
Don't mistake feelings, and weird cravings, and everything else for more than it really is. If it is an awakening, you will know. You will not have to ask, your memories, more than likely, will come back. So I don't think that you need to worry about asking anyone else, if you do need to ask others, then you're not awakening :). Don't misread what the symptoms really are.Really check and see what it is.
Now, I know that I will get a lot of messages or comments on this, pretty much trying to verify to this site, or me that you're going through an awakening... why? If you're a vampire,therian, etc. Then you should already know, and not have to argue with this. If you do, then you probably have not gone through a real awakening.
Like I've said before, The brain does not really use it's full rational thought processes until the early 20's. So I believe that everyone has a right to their own opinion, yes, but I do believe that others should really stop and read this and take a look at the advice given, and talk to your doctor if you feel that something is off. 9/10 they can help you. If it is a real awakening, then I think that you will find some comfort in something, and you will really understand what is going on. Remember, most otherkin did not have a guidance,and they did just fine...
I hope that you all think about this!
~Daniel
Alright, this will be a "little" rant. NOTE: I put quotations around "little" because if anyone has seen any of my rants, they are far from little, *giggle*
Alright, so I've been seeing lately that a lot of people are asking "Am I awakening" "How do I know if I am awakening" etc. etc. There are various types of questions that have been asked.
Okay,first of all.. the teenage body is a marvelous thing full of hormones, which makes our bodies start to act very odd, you know the usual things, you get acne and other wonderful things.
Alright, well this is not limited to having weird cravings, or having mood swings, fatigue, everything. All of that is completely normal.
A lot of people are on here thinking that they are going through an awakening, but in all reality they are just going through puberty. Puberty doesn't end until your 20's for some. So, it doesn't end when you get all of the basic stuff, nooo my friend, it goes a lot farther than that. Most of it is mental. Which is why parts of your brain are still growing. Your skeletal system is still growing, so is your skull. Sutures do not close up until your 30s I believe, correct me if I am wrong.
Of course, this is not a discussion on puberty, well.. not all of it.
Like I said above, a lot of people think that they are vampires awakening on here. Most of that is not really true. If you research Anemia or Diabetes, you will see that a few cases the people actually crave blood. It deals with the system of your body wanting what it can get in a very short time. Which is why people with high blood sugar want water or are thirsty, because they are trying to flush sugar out of the system. Like I said, the body is a very interesting thing, especially the teenage body.
Bodies, when they are full of hormones, will cause it to go through random changes, especially those having to deal with pain. Growing pains are the worst, but a lot of people get them. It does not mean that you are turning into a creature of the night, or a wolf. Sorry folks, it is true.
I do believe that a lot of people want things to be different in their lives, but at the same time, I think that people need to look around, and see what they really have. Face life, and in return, you might actually start to see how magical it really is. Some people want a way out, but in reality I think that rhey are just scared, and they will never know how their lives really could be.
If you talk to your doctor about some things, they will not think of you crazy, if you talk to them correctly. I think that many of you are just looking to things to make yourself feel more important, and some of you don't even need that. Most of the people on here I've met are very interesting wonderful people, but they don't even realize it themselves.
In all reality, yes, otherkin exist, without a doubt, but I think that people read too much into things before they really get a chance to think of anything else. Hormones do cause serious changes, like mentioned above. That is why people get depressed, and don't know how to handle things. Actually, there is a part of your brain that does not stop growing until you hit your early 20s. It deals with rational thought. Which means, that you do not take the time to really think about things, which makes it harder for you to think things through. It could be the reason why so many teenage suicides happen. They do not think that there is a way out of it. I think that the human brain is more complex that anything that I've seen.
Although, otherkin, like I mentioned, they are real. It does not mean that you are not in a human body. 99.9% of all otherkin are HUMAN. They are reincarnated souls in human bodies, Which means that they deal with the same thing as humans do, and in all reality, the awakening is just an intensified form of puberty, the type of puberty that I was talking about. Nothing more really. It's just part of growing up.
Vampires, when they are awakening, that is when their energy starts to pour out, because they are so stressed. Most vampires, are just overly stressed humans. That is what the real truth is. Fairies, they are more in touch with their souls, which is why they use magick more giftedly than humans, and that they are stronger, and maintain their fairy-like appearance. That's it. That is why their backs hurt. They don't get real wings, sorry to burst people's bubbles.
By the way, all of the people complaining about the RPing on here, let them have their fun. It does not really matter. They will find others, and leave the main forum, and if not, then just look over it. Don't complain, it draws more attention to yourself.
So, anyways, awakenings aren't very mystical, hmm? Awakenings are more mental than anything, actually, puberty, while it has some physical changes, is more mental than anything. Like I said, awakenings are more just intensified puberty.
Barely any person on this site is an otherkin, especially if someone claims to be a hybrid. It makes no sense, in all honesty. Yes, it can happen, but it is very rare. I think that others need to really meditate and go to the doctor and get check-ups. It could really help them in the future, and then they can really sort through their life and see what is real and what is not. I think that everyone would really benefit from this.
Don't mistake feelings, and weird cravings, and everything else for more than it really is. If it is an awakening, you will know. You will not have to ask, your memories, more than likely, will come back. So I don't think that you need to worry about asking anyone else, if you do need to ask others, then you're not awakening :). Don't misread what the symptoms really are.Really check and see what it is.
Now, I know that I will get a lot of messages or comments on this, pretty much trying to verify to this site, or me that you're going through an awakening... why? If you're a vampire,therian, etc. Then you should already know, and not have to argue with this. If you do, then you probably have not gone through a real awakening.
Like I've said before, The brain does not really use it's full rational thought processes until the early 20's. So I believe that everyone has a right to their own opinion, yes, but I do believe that others should really stop and read this and take a look at the advice given, and talk to your doctor if you feel that something is off. 9/10 they can help you. If it is a real awakening, then I think that you will find some comfort in something, and you will really understand what is going on. Remember, most otherkin did not have a guidance,and they did just fine...
I hope that you all think about this!
~Daniel
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Permalink Reply by Kassandra. on -
This is very true and I agree with every word.
Especially about the rp-ing. I just ignore it.
:)
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Permalink Reply by Daniel on -
Exactly. I just hate that people have a cow when people see others RPing. It makes no sense to me.
Oh well, I just put this out there for people to see. I hope people think about this, before blurting out something they will regret later.. lol
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Permalink Reply by Kassandra. on
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Think before you speak.
That's always a good rule.
:D
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Permalink Reply by Daniel on
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Haha, yes, it certainly is.
I think everyone should listen to that rule. That is why most teens get into the trouble that they do, it's genetics. Lovely, no wonder teenage years are so hard.. our brains are mean to us ;)
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Permalink Reply by True on -
Wow, hon, you do go on... lol Some good points, though. Really, they ought to teach teens the biology behind puberty and stop acting like you all won't understand. You're not dumb just because you're young.
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Permalink Reply by Daniel on
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Lol that's very true.
I do wish it was required for all teens to take anatomy. It would be benefical for everyone, lol. Maybe we wouldn't have so many "vampires" on here if they did xD
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Permalink Reply by SPyke on -
I totally agree. I always am also a little put off by the fear that folks will be "locked up" for a particular odd thing or two. that is a fear that should not exist in this modern age of medical understanding. yes! take psychology in high school, take advanced biology (i found both equally fascinating)
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Permalink Reply by Daniel on
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Yeah, I think that we need to give the doctors a bit more credit. They know how odd the human body can be. I think that they probably hear something like that once a week at least. I think that people need to learn how to talk to the doctors first though. If you go in and say "yeah, I think I want blood... am I a vampire?!" lmao, the drs will laugh in your face. If you say "I've been having weird cravings lately, like extremely rare meat, and just weird cravings that have to deal with blood. Something is wrong, can you help me?" etc. I think that the doctors will understand. It's their job to help, and they will know what to look for and how to treat it, but people need to go to the doctor before anything can happen.
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Permalink Reply by Daniel on
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Alright, thanks :D
yeah, I am taking AP bio right now. The body is a magnificant thing. I've always wanted to be a nurse, and I've always been intrigued by the body, so much so, I study it when I am bored. It keeps me entertained
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Permalink Reply by Sarah on -
i agree...great post Daniel :D everyone should always go to the doctor first when they think it could be part of the awakening. and if the doctor cant figure out what the problem is...and its persistent...then chances are...its an awakening. but people should ALWAYS seek medical help from a professional first. INCLUDING psychiatric help. i know how this is going to sound...but a lot of people on this site would benefit from psychiatric help. its really not that bad. i go to therapy twice a week...and its been amazing...but i think that everyone who thinks they might have signs or symptoms of being kin should see doctors first. i had all kinds of issues that doctors couldnt figure out during the first set of awakenings. i went to a specialist and everything. now i only get the body aches...i used to have a lot of problems with dizziness and stuff...its starting to wind down. and the mental health aspect is getting better too. im totally off meds now...i've really been balancing out finally in terms of the body and soul working in unison together...but *just* learning about being kin didnt "fix" me. i needed professional help. i really hope that this post reaches a lot of the people on here who may just be a little confused.
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Permalink Reply by Daniel on
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Exactly, I think a lot of people don't understand that.
They look for others that have gone through the same thing, but in all reality, every awakening is different. It's odd how gullible people are on this site, and they will believe everything that is said. I hate it, but it is true.
I used to go to a therapist, and it did help me. It helped me understand a bit about myself that I did not before.
People just want to get answers and not have to deal with anything, but that is the worst thing to do, in my own opinion. I just wish people would not be afraid of the doctors or anything. Others need help, but at the same time, I think that they don't want to really face what it could be, and their dreams of being an otherkin being shattered.
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