some say u chose to be gay some say youre born with it. i say you are born with it. i tell people that and they r like well when ur born u dont dont know what gay is so u cant be born with it. i say well how do you know ur straight. when ur born u dont know what straight is so how do u know, u dont so get off my back!!! i think u r born with it and then as u get older and start to understand ur self more u grow into it. so theres a bif f u to all the ones who says it is a choice. you cant wake up ione day and have feelings for the same sex i cant do that with the opposite sex which means when u say go back straight i cant because i was never straight to start with...
I feel they are born with it, its not a choice its how they are, no one can chose to be gay or straight it just doesn't work that way, people who say its a choice are just ignorant.
No one can really understand and some just don't want to, but i guess only the people who are willing to believe that your born with it and only begin to understand.
Goodness, no offense to anyone, but what is up with all the talk of homosexuality? First one girl starts off, then it is a a chain reaction, like most discussions around here...
Anyways, my theory of "Why people are Gay/Lesbian" is I think that it is a hormonal, or chromosome malfunction.
If you've ever looked at most gay guys, don't they look a little feminine, even if they are the type that "Look straight"? They always have one or two feminine characteristics, and with Lesbians, I think that they look butch, in one way or another.. the true lesbians, not the ones that are "Bi-Curious" People always question their sexuality, it is a part of life.
I think that men have too much estrogen in their system, from birth, and woman have too much testosterone in the blood.
Either that, or like I said, a chromosome malfunction. That would also explain some of the way that they both act, and the way that they look, no offense to any gay people, but you can tell more than half the time when someone is gay, and not someone you WANT to be gay.
Have you noticed that there are barely ANY good discussions on here anymore? What the HECK happened to anything interesting? When I first came on here, on another account, I was like trying to find time to post all that I could about things, now...*sighs* it is just personal problems, or "What am I????"s