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Can this be an incubus?
A very close friend of mine just shared with me that she is afraid to stay in her own bedroom alone because she can feel the presence of someone standing over her when she is lying in the bed and feels this presence stroke her arms and head when she is trying to sleep. She says she is a hundred percent sure that it is a man though she can't see them or even normally feel their presence. She told me she feels more tired than usual after spending time in her bedroom and has several times felt paralyzed, unable to move at all and drained in sweat. She often feels short of breath and stuff keeps being taken out of the bedside tables and placed on top of them. The worst part she says is the touches as they seem so sensual. And also the fact that she can feel him standing by her bed looking at her as she try to sleep. Can this be an incubus, and what can be done to help her?? She really can't deal with it...
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Permalink Reply by Yours Truely, on -
Sounds creepy, what if she tried cleansing the room?
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Permalink Reply by Achuliel on -
I don't know how to yet, I'm still learning to deal with what I can do and she doesn't know how to do it either. Plus I've heard it can be dangerous if you try and don't know what to do.. That's why I'm looking for help here now... And yeah it seems very creepy :S
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Permalink Reply by Raithe Church on -
The classic incubus normally won't stop at just caressing but will usually try to take it all the way. By force if it can dominate its victim enough. The moving of stuff from beside drawers to the top of them would indicate poltergeist activity but this is countered by the feeling of being drained and immobilised unless this is a fear reaction which might also explain the sweating. How old is she? What's the circumstances in her familial structure? What's the house history? If she's being touched and says it feels sensual then it could just be an amourous spirit who's caught in this world and unable to move on and is also unable to understand or wont accept that the advances are not welcome. Has she tried actually talking to it and asking it to stop? As for forcibly getting it to stop she should maybe try a banishing spell to send it on its way and cleanse the room afterwardswith a sage smudge stick. Just cleansing the room won't do the job. In the meantime she should at least cast a circle of protection around herself and the bed when she gets in to see if that keeps him at bay.
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Permalink Reply by Achuliel on
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She's in her early 40s but all women that have entered the room alone feels the same sensations. She is married with children. The children and the husband doesn't feel anything. She came to me for help, but I'm quite unsure because the moving of stuff. Especially since things were moved from a closed safe to other places around the room. I thought poltergeist because of this, but the sensual touches just doesn't fit...
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Permalink Reply by Raithe Church on
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If it's not just her that's experiencing these sensations then this being is definitely inhabiting the area. My understandings of Incubus is that they normally just go for one particular victim and then move on and her age is about right for them. How old are the children? Poltergeist activity normally happens around prepubescent children and in particular young girls just coming to awareness of themselves. If it's a young lad of the same developmental stage it could be he has a latent Oedipal complex which might explain the touching but I think this unlikely due to other women feeling these sensations too. What's confusing is that Incubus don't normally engage in activities such as moving things around. Their whole focus tends to be sexual in nature. Maybe look into the buildings history more and see if there were any events in its past that might shed more light.
If this activity isn't happening when the husband's present then that would indicate it would respond to pressure to stop or that the activity was somehow connected to the woman herself. I think you have to look at all the possibilities here to find the solution. Is she psychically aware and if so to what degree? Is she satisfied by her husbands attentions? Do you know how old the house is Achuliel? Have you considered the possibility that maybe you have both a poltergeist and an incubus here? Unlikely but not impossible. If it is an Incubus then it doesn't sound to be a particularly strong one so should be quite easy to drive out. If it's a trapped spirit then it needs guiding into its future in as gentle a way as possible. My gut feelings are that this may be what it is. Perhaps a loving husband who lost his adored wife and was so traumatised by the event that he couldn't cope after his own death and clings to the area caressing any woman who comes in to it thinking it's his wife he's touching. The spirit, whatever its origins, doesn't sound malicious at any rate so that's one on the plus side.I think you'll find the answer in the past somewhere. Do some digging at the local library about who built the place, what was on the land before, who the previous occupants were and any local events that might have bearing on this.
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