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Kind ol' Spook is Pissed [rant]

I'm pissed. Yeap, here comes some harsh words. I know I've been speaking a bit meaner lately and it is because I'm irritated and in pain.

To the youngin's here- Quit your bitching about how bad your life is! I don't mind the blogs about it, but when you make a discussion asking for advice and don't listen to reason you just need to shut the hell up. Seriously. You think your life is going bad. You know nothing. I'm not claiming to have a terrible life, I have some bad luck right now, but it is nothing compared to what others have to go through. You know how they live with it? They work day to day on making their life better rather than being pissy little winers. I've been ill for a year and a half know. It started with neck problems from an accident to unexplained abdomen pains. Think your life sucks because your parents don't like your boyfriend (who is likely not someone you should be with anyways)? You don't know shit. I've been sitting here in enough pain for six hours to make a grown man cry. I've moved from screaming in pain to blaring anger. Yeah, your life is terrible. People have trials in their life and I know that what they are going through seems worse than everything before, but if you are gonna bitch about it listen to what others have to say.

To people who are talking about ghosts or being ghosts- I've just about had enough of it. Don't come to me for advice or tell me that I know nothing. Unless you can answer my questions, I don't want to hear it. I'd love to learn something new, but all I get is "you are wrong". When I ask questions it is because I am curious. It isn't always because I don't believe. So if you have become frustrated or angry with me because I seem to be not believing you, contact me again. I want to learn more. If you just want to play a game, leave me the hell alone. I'm one pissed off lady in pain today and I don't need your shit.

Now, to apologize for what I have just said. I'm not sorry about how I feel, but I am sorry that I have been so harsh about it. (yes, for me this is harsh) If you have done what I'm ranting about, I don't hate you and I'll still gladly talk to you... I just don't want you to keep on doing it. That's all. If you do what I'm ranting about I'll just not respond, simple as that.

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Permalink Reply by The Spook on April 26, 2009 at 4:30am: An addition. To people who send me group requests- For the love of God, knock it off! I join groups when I think I'll like them. I do run through the group lists often, so just don't send them to me anymore! I get the same ones from the same people so here is an ultimatum: Stop or you are off my friends list.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Azakiel on April 26, 2009 at 4:46am: First of all, you need to understand something. This site is for vampires fairies twilight goths, punks, skaters, AND EMOS. Now there are a lot of emos here, because they are not able to accepted by the "normal group" so they come on here to complain. Heck, you set yourself up for this by even joining the site. I apologize for being rude, but you need to understand this.

Now then, let's deal with the of the fact that people don't respect you about ghosts and ghasts.
You ARE the Spook, so therefore they should come to you for help or advice. They also can accuse you of not knowing anything because 1, they're jealous, or they believe that they know more than you. That is simply not true, or else you would not be the Spook.

My advice is to answer the polite people who are asking questions POLITELY. Also, you should ignore the people who say you are wrong or you know nothing. And the emos, just ignore them as well. They have issues that they believe vampires and other immortals with more than one lifetime of experience can solve their issues. But in real life, they gotta deal with it themselves.

My final advice is to just change your name. The name "The Spook" makes people WANT to ask you questions because it stirs their curiosity. Otherwise you are going to have to learn to deal with it.

I apologize for any rudeness Bethea or Carissa, (whatever you go by).; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by The Spook on April 26, 2009 at 6:19pm: I was just a bit grouchy. I do tend to ignore most of this most of the time. Honestly, it doesn't bother me normally. I had just been in pain for four hours straight and needed a release. I was angry with myself so I pulled that anger out and placed it on other things. I know there are Emos here and it just pains me that people don't accept the help that is out there.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Sarah on April 26, 2009 at 5:16am: *gives Spook a big hug* i know what you're saying...there are worse things in life than being broken up with...or *whatever* for the most part...i just stick to the forums about Kin, that way i dont read all the other stuff. I really hope that you feel better soon :D; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Belladonna. on April 26, 2009 at 5:42am: W.O.W. that was some rant there Spook, are you ok?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by The Spook on April 26, 2009 at 6:20pm: I am now. I had a pain attack for six hours and I was a bit... angry, I suppose. I'm not too bad today, but I'm completely out of pain medication and can't get any until May 9th. I think I was just taking out my frustration on things that normally don't bother me.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Belladonna. on April 26, 2009 at 9:29pm: thats what i was wondering; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Scion on April 26, 2009 at 6:03am: Haha!

I agree that complaining about every little thing isnt something that should be thrown on the discussion board every two minutes, but its not like this site has specifically made a section for people to seek this kind of help or to complain about every little problem, and I dont think it will any time soon, so its maybe the only alternative.

Also this site is filled to the brim with emo's, confused people, and people in general who have constant problems and love to complain. Just because you are getting pissed about it now doesnt mean that people will care and stop just because your peoblems are making you less tolerant to opening and reading out other peoples problems. Maybe you should just not open the discussions titled things like "help please!" or has content that starts with things like "I want your opinions on this PROBLEM ive been having."

Also, feel free to call me a asshole for this, but shouldnt you be doing something else like maybe attending a yoga class or something like that if your back and abdomen are hurting instead of sitting in a position thats probably straining your back because you arent moving it?

But I did enjoy the rant. And in the end I do agree that the constant whining should be toned down a little, but at the same time its not going to change just because you throw a tantrum about it.

I hope my point of view came across clearly enough.
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Permalink Reply by Sarah on April 26, 2009 at 6:04pm: "Also, feel free to call me a asshole for this, but shouldnt you be doing something else like maybe attending a yoga class or something like that if your back and abdomen are hurting instead of sitting in a position thats probably straining your back because you arent moving it?"

she just had surgery literally like a day or 2 ago. so no, to answer your question she shouldnt be doing anything else other than resting.

oh and i also wanted to point out...that i dont think shes *only* ranting about people complaining...shes more or less saying that these people ask for help with a situation, and she offers advice...and they "wont listen to reason" she reads the threads and goes into the discussions with the intent of helping people...but she tries to help and reason with people and they dont listen. so shes essentially saying...dont bitch about your problems and ask for advice if you're only going to ignore the advice and continue to bitch about the problem. which i totally agree with. dont ask for help if you're not going to accept it and use it. and if you choose to not do the reasonable and responsible thing...then just stop complaining.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by The Spook on April 26, 2009 at 6:26pm: Thank you. That is exactly what I was meaning. People can complain, it helps release the tension, just don't ask for advice that you aren't going to take. I'll help, but I will not tell you what you want to hear. *shrugs*

As for the yoga thing, my neck is fine now. But thanks to the medication and the yoga I was doing, I've stressed and torn several organs. (that is what the doctors told me this morning when test results came in) I also had to have my gall bladder removed. Apparently it was having problems with the muscle relaxers I was taking for my neck when it was bad and now it was infected and filled with stones.

Scion, you misunderstand what kind of pain it was. It wasn't "oh, I'm uncomfortable", it was "Oh, someone kill me know, if I wasn't so scared I'd do it myself". That was why I was being quite unreasonable and ranty.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Haunted Beauty on April 26, 2009 at 6:54pm: i agree with you 100% they dont know how bad some peoples lives are they just enjoy getting the attention from others cause they are bored and need it, my life is terrible i couldnt even tell you how bad my life has gotten from the age of 8 it kept getting worse, my life is bad bf problems isnt the end of the world, i am glad you did this rant maybe it can knock some sense into these people.

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