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Permalink Reply by dreamweaver on March 10, 2009 at 1:08pm

not if he speaks to your heart

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Permalink Reply by Brittany on March 10, 2009 at 10:24pm

hi...i am 17 and engaged and still in high school so dont worry about being to young i am in love and if you love your boyfriend like i love my Matt then go for it :) i have been getting crap from all my family but i dont listen to them cause i know what i am doing so dont listen to what anyone says to you :)

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Permalink Reply by Hope on March 10, 2009 at 10:45pm

Ok so I met my husband when I was 19 and every one said we were to young to tie the knot so even though we knew we would be together 4-ever we waited 5 years before we got married. If you guys are truly in love waiting awhile to actually get married shouldn't be a big deal. It's just a piece of paper we mostly did it for the party. Get engaged,find out about each other thats the fun part.Dont tell me you know every thing about him in 5 months I've been with my man for many many years and I still find out things I dont know about him, Not much,but some.. Enjoy each other that's the best part!!!

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Permalink Reply by Blood Angel on March 11, 2009 at 2:41am

Hope is right, elesser. Marriage is a big thing. My husband and I got engaged 10 months after we started dating and married a year and three months after we started dating. I'm still finding out stuff about him that he was afraid to tell me when we were dating. You sound like you're sure about what you want to do, but wait on marriage until you know more about your mate.

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Permalink Reply by The Black cat on March 11, 2009 at 2:48am

I would wait but its never to soon to marry, well it may be but yeah my parents got marryed in 2006 and still are!
my mom met my step dad at this football party and they hit it off.
If you know he is your soulmate then yeah.
if you love each other and both see marriage in your future then yeah.and if you know more about him. and he knows about you then its okay but be sure to know alittle more about him.and everything

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Permalink Reply by Sunlight Sorrow on March 12, 2009 at 12:21am

you might scare him a bit saying you want to be pregnant with his children.. it's a quite big deal actually.
and the fact a guy sees you in his future doesn't grant that he wants to marry you already. I think it's good to wait with such a decision. If you want to be married already - live like you were, but please - wait with the official marriage a bit longer. It can only have pluses. And no risks.

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Permalink Reply by Brittany on March 12, 2009 at 12:29am

true cause i am in high school and engaged plus you should talk about marrige then about kids

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Permalink Reply by unseelie man on March 12, 2009 at 5:19am

I wouldnt mention the children part yet but talking about an engagement sounds like a nice idea if you both love each other.

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