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plz i need advice plz

ok i have always been scared about haveing sex because wat will happen afterwards like getting pregnant or the realationship crushes down so 2 people that have had sex wat happend 2 u plz i really need this advice

thank you :)

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Permalink Reply by Mei (Peridot Birchstar) on November 4, 2009 at 9:13am: this is plain logic as long you are finnsihed whit your menstrual cycle of the month it's safe to have sex whitout having to worry about getting pregnant, but your partner should still have a condom available, the realtionship may depend on what kind of feelings you already have for each other, but if your feelings are strong it can last it all depends on you two
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i'm 18 still a virgin and yet i know this much
my info is from my two years of health and social studies; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by jessica on November 9, 2009 at 8:31pm: well i am on bc so not really scared of getting pregnant more scared of him breakung up with me because he feels bad about it afterwards; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Haunted Beauty on January 13, 2010 at 5:02pm: Ummm......
You should never have sex without a condom or with out any contraceptive.
Its never safe to have sex without contraceptive, you can still fall pregnant after your menstrual cycle.

Its very rare that your first time you have sex that you will stay with that person forever. (unless you wait till you get married)

Jessica how old are you ?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Cinderella♥'s_Blood on November 4, 2009 at 1:19pm: I haven't had sex, but I can tell you what happenes with my mother who's had sex with a new dude about every week. They all left her, and she got knocked of a few times. I don't mean to scare you, but unless you're sure he's not an ass and that you're ready, be careful.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Stone heart angel on November 4, 2009 at 1:37pm: ive had frioends in the same situation. Its kinda simple, you can use contraception. You also don'y actually have to have that kinda sex, theres also oral sex, and theres another one as well where you rub yourselves against each other very emotionally, snogging etc, licking, sucking, biting, that sorta thing. You will still get that satisfaction and pleasure. Ive tried it, and it works for those who don't wanna have sexual intercourse.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by jessica on November 9, 2009 at 8:38pm: well i all ready have done that stuff but with him i just want more and i cant figure out y .is that weried; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by shaddow on November 4, 2009 at 2:54pm: love its up to you do you feel ready and do you trust him not to be an ass and leave if the worst should happen but you should use protection anyway but try thinking it out through your head when washing up or even walking some where and see if you really trust him or if its not just that you think you should... its what i do i have had sext twice with both people i truley trust and it has payed off they respect you if you respect you first; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Britt Nicole on November 9, 2009 at 9:52pm: i havent had sex but my best friend jason just went through this with his girlfriend. the statistics show that a majority of the time the relationship will end after intercourse and not to scare you but i dont think you should do it. jasons girlfriend left him after they had sex and i honestly dont think he will ever get over it. so I dont think its a good idea but it IS your life..... good luck! i hope everything works out for yall; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by jessica on November 10, 2009 at 3:55am: thank u so much and i will think about that.about wat can happend. but really all of u thankz for the advice it means a lot 2 me; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Stone heart angel on January 13, 2010 at 12:03pm: its not wierd, its u being sexually active-kinda like your body saying "come on! youre at the perfect mating age"do it" but maybe your not ready.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Neeka on January 13, 2010 at 2:48pm: hunny its completly up to u do wat u fell is right and i guess if wants to take the step he really like ya but i recmmend first time big nono unless u going out; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Haunted Beauty on January 13, 2010 at 4:56pm: I can't tell you what happened to me because its always different for everyone.
I would suggest you read this http://www.fairiesvampires.com/forum/topics/sex-information

Why are you scared to have sex? that is the real question you should be asking yourself.; ▶ Reply to This