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Sex information!
I have seen a lot of discussion on here about sex, which worries me. Most of your girls and boys on here and fairly young ranging from 12 and above, i started to worry about this a few weeks ago but thought that i would stay out of it, but i can no longer sit here and ignore the sex talks, as i am very opinionated and strong headed.
This discussion will be based on mostly information safe steps and wrong steps. All the information will be here for anyone seeking information on it. But let me state UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES do i encourage under age sex. This is just some information that i have put together for young girls and boys who need information and are to scared to ask for it.
Let me start by saying this if you blush and giggle like a child about sex then your not ready to have it, sex is a intimate moment between to people who are mature and love each other, in no way should you have sex if
A) All your friends are having it.
B) Its the cool thing to do.
C)If you are pressured.
Or
You are not properly prepared for it. These are very important to remember you should never feel you need have sex if any of those are your reasons.
Now lets start off with the pill .
The birth control pill can be as much as 99% effective. However, perfect use means remembering to take the Pill everyday at the same time. With typical use, the average failure rate is between 3 and 13% per year, depending on the type of pill you are taking. So the pill is only 99.99% effective if you take it as told and keep to that, but remember this doesn't protect you from STD's and other things you can catch from your partner or vica versa.
Here is a website that has all the information on the pill: http://www.epigee.org/guide/pill.html
Condoms are your best bet here but don't be fooled.
Condoms can fail or break. Therefore, using condoms in addition to another form of contraception will help to reduce your chances of an unintended pregnancy occurring. condoms do provide protection against getting pregnant, they also carry a 15% failure rate.
Here is a website that has all question for condoms: http://www.epigee.org/guide/condomfaq.html
Why have safe sex?
* Practising safe sex provides you with peace of mind.
* Thinking ‘it won’t happen to me’ provides no protection.
* Some STIs are quite common and using condoms will
reduce the risk of infection.
* People with HIV or STIs often don’t know they are infected.
* STIs and HIV exist in all countries and cultures and can affect
anyone.
* Condom and water-based lubricants prevent HIV
transmission.
* Safe sex protects you from unintended pregnancies.
Always best to go on the safe side especially with something as touchy as sex, anything can go wrong and why take the chances, the only thing that your destroying is your own life and maybe someone else.
Last bit of advice.
For all females who are currently sexually active please go get a pap smear done, it is so important pap smears can detect cancer of the uterine cervix or precancerous conditions. this is some information about pap smears http://www.menstruation.com.au/periodpages/papsmear.html.
If your having sex and need advice or you think something is wrong go see your doctor and speak with them, that what they are there for.
Never fear the word NO.
Remember SAFE SEX IS BEST!!
Haunted
This discussion will be based on mostly information safe steps and wrong steps. All the information will be here for anyone seeking information on it. But let me state UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES do i encourage under age sex. This is just some information that i have put together for young girls and boys who need information and are to scared to ask for it.
Let me start by saying this if you blush and giggle like a child about sex then your not ready to have it, sex is a intimate moment between to people who are mature and love each other, in no way should you have sex if
A) All your friends are having it.
B) Its the cool thing to do.
C)If you are pressured.
Or
You are not properly prepared for it. These are very important to remember you should never feel you need have sex if any of those are your reasons.
Now lets start off with the pill .
The birth control pill can be as much as 99% effective. However, perfect use means remembering to take the Pill everyday at the same time. With typical use, the average failure rate is between 3 and 13% per year, depending on the type of pill you are taking. So the pill is only 99.99% effective if you take it as told and keep to that, but remember this doesn't protect you from STD's and other things you can catch from your partner or vica versa.
Here is a website that has all the information on the pill: http://www.epigee.org/guide/pill.html
Condoms are your best bet here but don't be fooled.
Condoms can fail or break. Therefore, using condoms in addition to another form of contraception will help to reduce your chances of an unintended pregnancy occurring. condoms do provide protection against getting pregnant, they also carry a 15% failure rate.
Here is a website that has all question for condoms: http://www.epigee.org/guide/condomfaq.html
Why have safe sex?
* Practising safe sex provides you with peace of mind.
* Thinking ‘it won’t happen to me’ provides no protection.
* Some STIs are quite common and using condoms will
reduce the risk of infection.
* People with HIV or STIs often don’t know they are infected.
* STIs and HIV exist in all countries and cultures and can affect
anyone.
* Condom and water-based lubricants prevent HIV
transmission.
* Safe sex protects you from unintended pregnancies.
Always best to go on the safe side especially with something as touchy as sex, anything can go wrong and why take the chances, the only thing that your destroying is your own life and maybe someone else.
Last bit of advice.
For all females who are currently sexually active please go get a pap smear done, it is so important pap smears can detect cancer of the uterine cervix or precancerous conditions. this is some information about pap smears http://www.menstruation.com.au/periodpages/papsmear.html.
If your having sex and need advice or you think something is wrong go see your doctor and speak with them, that what they are there for.
Never fear the word NO.
Remember SAFE SEX IS BEST!!
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by Hope on -
This ia great cause your right I have seen a bunch of young kids asking about having sex and even though you wanna be like your to young , don't do it , give it few years untill your older, but you know that doesn't usually help. So it's great that your putting the information out there for them. I just hope they take the time to read it cause it is important!!!!!!
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Permalink Reply by Haunted_Beauty on -
I know, it is very hard to tell people not to do it when they are this young, but i truly hope they read this i spent a bit writing it. Oh and thanks for taking the time to read it at least i know someone looked at what i wrote :) lets just hope it gets to all the people who need the help or information.
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by Gwen Morte on -
haha. I'm a very old virgin. And you know what? No one gives me hell for it. I don't even get teased. In fact, alotta girls are jealous of me. You're so, so right that girls start too young, feeling curious or pressured - but they don't realize how much they might regret it later. I'm saving it in case my true, perfect soul mate ever shows up (fingers crossed). Once that gift is gone, it's gone.
Please, PLEASE, girls. Don't sell yourself out cheaply. Be better than that.
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Permalink Reply by Haunted_Beauty on
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haha there is nothing wrong with being a virgin, I'm glad you shared that, maybe young girls might think twice, or ignore this either way.
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by Silver IceFang on -
Ohhh...I haven't thought about it yet, lol..but thanks. I think this should be featured.
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Permalink Reply by Haunted_Beauty on
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Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by Hope on
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People do need to stop being careless. Haunted_Beauty this is a great informative discussion that more people need to read. I hope it's still up here when I get back on line tomarrow!!!! Goodnight everyone!!!
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Permalink Reply by Haunted_Beauty on
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Many people are careless and don't understand what they are putting them self's up for. Thank you Aset.
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by siren on -
fair play Haunted! this is really good of you (",)
iv knowin alot of stories about girls my own age ending up wit a baby,an STI and or the embarssment of been known as a 'slut'.
im a virgin and see nothing wrong with being so-as there is no big deal-because i have no problem saying no to a dude.
thats usually one of the biggest factors effecting young girls and sex, they fear they will be dumped for the local slag if they wont put out. let me tell u for all that read this-if u ever find urself in that situation, under presser to please ur partner, dump them. u deserve so much better. if they will not respect u and want u feel comfortable with-it is not a relationship, and a relationship built by two people who love eachother is the only place for sex.
siren
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Permalink Reply by Haunted_Beauty on
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Thank you, that is very true many girls fear the word NO. The word no is feared so much that girls put them self's up for a fall all the time and thats when they suffer the most.
Most girls and boys don't realize all that can go wrong with sex, its all fun and games until the girl gets pregnant or the boy has aids.
Haunted
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