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Sex information!
I have seen a lot of discussion on here about sex, which worries me. Most of your girls and boys on here and fairly young ranging from 12 and above, i started to worry about this a few weeks ago but thought that i would stay out of it, but i can no longer sit here and ignore the sex talks, as i am very opinionated and strong headed.
This discussion will be based on mostly information safe steps and wrong steps. All the information will be here for anyone seeking information on it. But let me state UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES do i encourage under age sex. This is just some information that i have put together for young girls and boys who need information and are to scared to ask for it.
Let me start by saying this if you blush and giggle like a child about sex then your not ready to have it, sex is a intimate moment between to people who are mature and love each other, in no way should you have sex if
A) All your friends are having it.
B) Its the cool thing to do.
C)If you are pressured.
Or
You are not properly prepared for it. These are very important to remember you should never feel you need have sex if any of those are your reasons.
Now lets start off with the pill .
The birth control pill can be as much as 99% effective. However, perfect use means remembering to take the Pill everyday at the same time. With typical use, the average failure rate is between 3 and 13% per year, depending on the type of pill you are taking. So the pill is only 99.99% effective if you take it as told and keep to that, but remember this doesn't protect you from STD's and other things you can catch from your partner or vica versa.
Here is a website that has all the information on the pill: http://www.epigee.org/guide/pill.html
Condoms are your best bet here but don't be fooled.
Condoms can fail or break. Therefore, using condoms in addition to another form of contraception will help to reduce your chances of an unintended pregnancy occurring. condoms do provide protection against getting pregnant, they also carry a 15% failure rate.
Here is a website that has all question for condoms: http://www.epigee.org/guide/condomfaq.html
Why have safe sex?
* Practising safe sex provides you with peace of mind.
* Thinking ‘it won’t happen to me’ provides no protection.
* Some STIs are quite common and using condoms will
reduce the risk of infection.
* People with HIV or STIs often don’t know they are infected.
* STIs and HIV exist in all countries and cultures and can affect
anyone.
* Condom and water-based lubricants prevent HIV
transmission.
* Safe sex protects you from unintended pregnancies.
Always best to go on the safe side especially with something as touchy as sex, anything can go wrong and why take the chances, the only thing that your destroying is your own life and maybe someone else.
Last bit of advice.
For all females who are currently sexually active please go get a pap smear done, it is so important pap smears can detect cancer of the uterine cervix or precancerous conditions. this is some information about pap smears http://www.menstruation.com.au/periodpages/papsmear.html.
If your having sex and need advice or you think something is wrong go see your doctor and speak with them, that what they are there for.
Never fear the word NO.
Remember SAFE SEX IS BEST!!
Haunted
This discussion will be based on mostly information safe steps and wrong steps. All the information will be here for anyone seeking information on it. But let me state UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES do i encourage under age sex. This is just some information that i have put together for young girls and boys who need information and are to scared to ask for it.
Let me start by saying this if you blush and giggle like a child about sex then your not ready to have it, sex is a intimate moment between to people who are mature and love each other, in no way should you have sex if
A) All your friends are having it.
B) Its the cool thing to do.
C)If you are pressured.
Or
You are not properly prepared for it. These are very important to remember you should never feel you need have sex if any of those are your reasons.
Now lets start off with the pill .
The birth control pill can be as much as 99% effective. However, perfect use means remembering to take the Pill everyday at the same time. With typical use, the average failure rate is between 3 and 13% per year, depending on the type of pill you are taking. So the pill is only 99.99% effective if you take it as told and keep to that, but remember this doesn't protect you from STD's and other things you can catch from your partner or vica versa.
Here is a website that has all the information on the pill: http://www.epigee.org/guide/pill.html
Condoms are your best bet here but don't be fooled.
Condoms can fail or break. Therefore, using condoms in addition to another form of contraception will help to reduce your chances of an unintended pregnancy occurring. condoms do provide protection against getting pregnant, they also carry a 15% failure rate.
Here is a website that has all question for condoms: http://www.epigee.org/guide/condomfaq.html
Why have safe sex?
* Practising safe sex provides you with peace of mind.
* Thinking ‘it won’t happen to me’ provides no protection.
* Some STIs are quite common and using condoms will
reduce the risk of infection.
* People with HIV or STIs often don’t know they are infected.
* STIs and HIV exist in all countries and cultures and can affect
anyone.
* Condom and water-based lubricants prevent HIV
transmission.
* Safe sex protects you from unintended pregnancies.
Always best to go on the safe side especially with something as touchy as sex, anything can go wrong and why take the chances, the only thing that your destroying is your own life and maybe someone else.
Last bit of advice.
For all females who are currently sexually active please go get a pap smear done, it is so important pap smears can detect cancer of the uterine cervix or precancerous conditions. this is some information about pap smears http://www.menstruation.com.au/periodpages/papsmear.html.
If your having sex and need advice or you think something is wrong go see your doctor and speak with them, that what they are there for.
Never fear the word NO.
Remember SAFE SEX IS BEST!!
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by Ninaa on -
Yeah, true thanks for putting it. Really helped me, refreshed my memory. ;)
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Permalink Reply by Holly on -
thank you hb once again you said it all yes I also think this should be featured. I've noticed a lot of sex talk on here. But unlike you I keep my mouth shut cuz it can only get me in trouble or piss someone off. If any of the young peeps on here have any questions on any of this stuff i'm sure any of us of age ppl will be more than willing to help.... Well most of us. If they wanna keep it private j add us and private message us.
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Permalink Reply by Mi$$ mUrDeR(hunters grl twin) on -
this is retarded i already no all this shit
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Permalink Reply by Haunted Beauty on -
Well aren't you smart, but i hate to tell you this was for all the people who didn't know all this "shit" as you put it.
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by MyEyesHurt on -
What a way to present yourself Mi$$ mUrDeR.
Haunty_Beauty shows more apreciation than you could.
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Permalink Reply by Belladonna. on -
Then why the HELL are you replying?
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Permalink Reply by Kira on -
I'm happy that you were brave enough to post this, bravo. I appear young for my age, though my experiances surpase the way I look..... I understand what sex is about, I find it unessacary, and only when I find my soulmate will I give up my virginity. All the other boys/men that cross my pass are simply other people, they mean nothing to me.
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Permalink Reply by pheebs|the one who would... on -
i had sex with a guy. im only 15 and i was drunk at a house party. sex can relate to drinking as drink minamises ur thinking and maximises ur doings. i didnt use a condom, or use the pill as it was unexpected. i completely regret having sex as i wish i'd have waited until after marrige.
to all those young ones out there like me, dont be pressured. say NO. and even if u think ur ready, take the time to think about the risks. u will regret it after, trust me x
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Permalink Reply by x♫xAdenAutopsyx♫x on -
wtf ? ! ? no one came on here to talk about safe sex...get a life.
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Permalink Reply by Haunted Beauty on
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Excuse me!
You better watch your attiuted with me because I won't take your crap!
You don't like what I said then don't fucking comment!
I'm really sick of people like you who think there cool because they say shit like that.. Maybe you should look into getting a life for your self because your comment was pathetic and immature!
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by Justin on -
You must've came on here to talk about being someone you're not right?
I guess when somone is being their true caring self...they need to get a life because it's something that you think can be obtained? Yea.
If you were a smart person that paid attention to their surroundings, you'd see the people that appreciated this post, and you'd realize that many people come on here just to see what haunted talks about because it's helps them with questions they have but may be afraid to ask.
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