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I have seen a lot of discussion on here about sex, which worries me. Most of your girls and boys on here and fairly young ranging from 12 and above, i started to worry about this a few weeks ago but thought that i would stay out of it, but i can no longer sit here and ignore the sex talks, as i am very opinionated and strong headed.
This discussion will be based on mostly information safe steps and wrong steps. All the information will be here for anyone seeking information on it. But let me state UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES do i encourage under age sex. This is just some information that i have put together for young girls and boys who need information and are to scared to ask for it.
Let me start by saying this if you blush and giggle like a child about sex then your not ready to have it, sex is a intimate moment between to people who are mature and love each other, in no way should you have sex if
A) All your friends are having it.
B) Its the cool thing to do.
C)If you are pressured.
Or
You are not properly prepared for it. These are very important to remember you should never feel you need have sex if any of those are your reasons.
Now lets start off with the pill .
The birth control pill can be as much as 99% effective. However, perfect use means remembering to take the Pill everyday at the same time. With typical use, the average failure rate is between 3 and 13% per year, depending on the type of pill you are taking. So the pill is only 99.99% effective if you take it as told and keep to that, but remember this doesn't protect you from STD's and other things you can catch from your partner or vica versa.
Here is a website that has all the information on the pill: http://www.epigee.org/guide/pill.html
Condoms are your best bet here but don't be fooled.
Condoms can fail or break. Therefore, using condoms in addition to another form of contraception will help to reduce your chances of an unintended pregnancy occurring. condoms do provide protection against getting pregnant, they also carry a 15% failure rate.
Here is a website that has all question for condoms: http://www.epigee.org/guide/condomfaq.html
Why have safe sex?
* Practising safe sex provides you with peace of mind.
* Thinking ‘it won’t happen to me’ provides no protection.
* Some STIs are quite common and using condoms will
reduce the risk of infection.
* People with HIV or STIs often don’t know they are infected.
* STIs and HIV exist in all countries and cultures and can affect
anyone.
* Condom and water-based lubricants prevent HIV
transmission.
* Safe sex protects you from unintended pregnancies.
Always best to go on the safe side especially with something as touchy as sex, anything can go wrong and why take the chances, the only thing that your destroying is your own life and maybe someone else.
Last bit of advice.
For all females who are currently sexually active please go get a pap smear done, it is so important pap smears can detect cancer of the uterine cervix or precancerous conditions. this is some information about pap smears http://www.menstruation.com.au/periodpages/papsmear.html.
If your having sex and need advice or you think something is wrong go see your doctor and speak with them, that what they are there for.
Never fear the word NO.
Remember SAFE SEX IS BEST!!
Haunted
This discussion will be based on mostly information safe steps and wrong steps. All the information will be here for anyone seeking information on it. But let me state UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES do i encourage under age sex. This is just some information that i have put together for young girls and boys who need information and are to scared to ask for it.
Let me start by saying this if you blush and giggle like a child about sex then your not ready to have it, sex is a intimate moment between to people who are mature and love each other, in no way should you have sex if
A) All your friends are having it.
B) Its the cool thing to do.
C)If you are pressured.
Or
You are not properly prepared for it. These are very important to remember you should never feel you need have sex if any of those are your reasons.
Now lets start off with the pill .
The birth control pill can be as much as 99% effective. However, perfect use means remembering to take the Pill everyday at the same time. With typical use, the average failure rate is between 3 and 13% per year, depending on the type of pill you are taking. So the pill is only 99.99% effective if you take it as told and keep to that, but remember this doesn't protect you from STD's and other things you can catch from your partner or vica versa.
Here is a website that has all the information on the pill: http://www.epigee.org/guide/pill.html
Condoms are your best bet here but don't be fooled.
Condoms can fail or break. Therefore, using condoms in addition to another form of contraception will help to reduce your chances of an unintended pregnancy occurring. condoms do provide protection against getting pregnant, they also carry a 15% failure rate.
Here is a website that has all question for condoms: http://www.epigee.org/guide/condomfaq.html
Why have safe sex?
* Practising safe sex provides you with peace of mind.
* Thinking ‘it won’t happen to me’ provides no protection.
* Some STIs are quite common and using condoms will
reduce the risk of infection.
* People with HIV or STIs often don’t know they are infected.
* STIs and HIV exist in all countries and cultures and can affect
anyone.
* Condom and water-based lubricants prevent HIV
transmission.
* Safe sex protects you from unintended pregnancies.
Always best to go on the safe side especially with something as touchy as sex, anything can go wrong and why take the chances, the only thing that your destroying is your own life and maybe someone else.
Last bit of advice.
For all females who are currently sexually active please go get a pap smear done, it is so important pap smears can detect cancer of the uterine cervix or precancerous conditions. this is some information about pap smears http://www.menstruation.com.au/periodpages/papsmear.html.
If your having sex and need advice or you think something is wrong go see your doctor and speak with them, that what they are there for.
Never fear the word NO.
Remember SAFE SEX IS BEST!!
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by Cerulean on -
Yeah, it shouldn't be used in lieu of protection. But.. shit happens.
People should have sex at whatever age they are ready.
I had it too young, but I don't regret it. Everything in life shapes you.
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Permalink Reply by Haunted_Beauty on -
Look people should really have sex when they are ready there is no time limit and there is no rush..
I believe people should have sex when they are truly ready that might rang from 17 - 19 or from 18-20 and so on..
People say you will know when your ready and thats half true i wasn't totally sure but once i was i kinda new..
I would say the best age would be 18 to 19 when your fully aware of your body and of the do's and dont's of sex..
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by Ninaa on -
Yeah I think so to. Hehe,I know my boyfriend and I are ready. But were just waiting.
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Permalink Reply by Ninaa on
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Oh I see, alright. Well to me I think in there 20's. They know what there doing, maybe there sure of themselves. I hope I make sense..hehe.
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Permalink Reply by Ninaa on
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Yeah, true thanks for putting it. Really helped me, refreshed my memory. ;)
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Permalink Reply by Holly on -
thank you hb once again you said it all yes I also think this should be featured. I've noticed a lot of sex talk on here. But unlike you I keep my mouth shut cuz it can only get me in trouble or piss someone off. If any of the young peeps on here have any questions on any of this stuff i'm sure any of us of age ppl will be more than willing to help.... Well most of us. If they wanna keep it private j add us and private message us.
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Permalink Reply by Mi$$ mUrDeR(hunters grl twin) on -
this is retarded i already no all this shit
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Permalink Reply by Haunted_Beauty on
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Well aren't you smart, but i hate to tell you this was for all the people who didn't know all this "shit" as you put it.
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by ☮MyEyesHurt☮ on -
What a way to present yourself Mi$$ mUrDeR.
Haunty_Beauty shows more apreciation than you could.
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Permalink Reply by Belladonna French fry Darkblade on -
Then why the HELL are you replying?
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