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So very disapointed... (Dont read, you might get angry)
Well... I'm not a vampire... I'm not a werewolf... I'm not... anything like that. I was curious and wanted to meet some, hoping that maybe there were some on her.
While I am not the above... something I am is an empath. Most of you might not even know what that is. -Sigh- and I'm to nice not to tell you.An empath is someone who can feel others. You can feel their thoughts... there intentions.. their feelings.
While I personally believe that every one has some kind of empathic ability... there are a feel... special ones. Ones that can feel others through the words they write... or type. One that, even after months, can walk into the house of a broken home and feel the pain. I may not have honed my skills fully, but I am a little stronger. I am what you would call a healer... Sometimes without even realizing it I will heal others... You have a headache? Aw don't worry it will be mine in about 5 minutes, you will feel better soon.
Anyway... enough about me... the real reason I wrote this is because of my overwhelming and growing disappointment. Unlike most empaths, I have... kind of a built in lie detector. While most of the time I just sit back.. and listen to the person lieing. I usually am respectful and don't call the person out. Sometimes it can get very hard, because of my upbringing I was lied to constantly, and I hated it, it is one of the reasons I can detect them a lot better then other empaths.
Like I said, I came on this site to find out if there were any real... different people... (trust me.. I know there are... I have met some real different people... ) Wile I came out of curiosity... I might leave out of anger. All I have found on this site are a bunch of teenagers desperately wanting to be different and find other different people to help them be different. (following.. it might get confusing)
I tried the sitting there polity...I listened to them... I ground my teeth a bit at each lie. What got me was when they started talking about killing people, and then one person claimed to be the span of satan himself, then another said they was a vampire but could also change into a werewolf... Can you really try to make yourself so important? -sigh- maybe I should stop here before I make alot of people angry...
There is just one question... for who ever has read all of this... Is this site real under all the... lies... or is it just some game... A game were people can come, drop everything at the door, and just pretend to be something they truly are not?
Also, for some of you that can't answer my question truthfully, please don't try... I just want you to actually think about it though... How can you love yourself... when you can even except yourself as you are... You've made friends on here? good. They should like you the same as you really are...
Thank you for your time and attention. (for those of you that actually read it all...)
p.s. Please don't be angry with me... I warned you in the title... I'm actually a pretty nice person... I just... couldn't stand it any more...
While I am not the above... something I am is an empath. Most of you might not even know what that is. -Sigh- and I'm to nice not to tell you.An empath is someone who can feel others. You can feel their thoughts... there intentions.. their feelings.
While I personally believe that every one has some kind of empathic ability... there are a feel... special ones. Ones that can feel others through the words they write... or type. One that, even after months, can walk into the house of a broken home and feel the pain. I may not have honed my skills fully, but I am a little stronger. I am what you would call a healer... Sometimes without even realizing it I will heal others... You have a headache? Aw don't worry it will be mine in about 5 minutes, you will feel better soon.
Anyway... enough about me... the real reason I wrote this is because of my overwhelming and growing disappointment. Unlike most empaths, I have... kind of a built in lie detector. While most of the time I just sit back.. and listen to the person lieing. I usually am respectful and don't call the person out. Sometimes it can get very hard, because of my upbringing I was lied to constantly, and I hated it, it is one of the reasons I can detect them a lot better then other empaths.
Like I said, I came on this site to find out if there were any real... different people... (trust me.. I know there are... I have met some real different people... ) Wile I came out of curiosity... I might leave out of anger. All I have found on this site are a bunch of teenagers desperately wanting to be different and find other different people to help them be different. (following.. it might get confusing)
I tried the sitting there polity...I listened to them... I ground my teeth a bit at each lie. What got me was when they started talking about killing people, and then one person claimed to be the span of satan himself, then another said they was a vampire but could also change into a werewolf... Can you really try to make yourself so important? -sigh- maybe I should stop here before I make alot of people angry...
There is just one question... for who ever has read all of this... Is this site real under all the... lies... or is it just some game... A game were people can come, drop everything at the door, and just pretend to be something they truly are not?
Also, for some of you that can't answer my question truthfully, please don't try... I just want you to actually think about it though... How can you love yourself... when you can even except yourself as you are... You've made friends on here? good. They should like you the same as you really are...
Thank you for your time and attention. (for those of you that actually read it all...)
p.s. Please don't be angry with me... I warned you in the title... I'm actually a pretty nice person... I just... couldn't stand it any more...
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Permalink Reply by Gabriel† on -
Exactly Mich'ael. This site was made to be a community for everyone, not just Otherkin, as Himself said in a blog post. http://www.fairiesvampires.com/profiles/blogs/rant-the-original-pur...
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Permalink Reply by vampirequeen13 on -
i don't think many people are offended by this, it is about time we all started speaking the truth. we all know that we lie, and we lie for many reasons. some may want to be different, as you said, some may wish that they truely were what they say, some to get out of another lie, some to change who they are, some who beleive they are what they say, the few who are what they say, and then the fewer who know the truth and just use this as a way to decide which path to take before taking it. i know that i am not truely a vampire but i do have a condition that to my tastebuds blood tastes good, but that is from an iron defisionsy. i might be a siren but i am too ugly to be a sprite or vampire or werewolf. i know and recodnise my lies...
do you?
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Permalink Reply by Lynda on -
You question confuses me... Like any human I do lie... -smiles softly- I remember in high school I had to lie alot... but my lies were about keeping who i really was away from people... High school students can be cruel. Its in human nature to lie... I know this.
-frowns- I have noticed a few people saying they are ugly... why is this? No one should ever call themselves ugly...
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Permalink Reply by Haunted_Beauty on -
It can be frustrating.. I am in a way an empath i haven't fully accepted it as it gives me head aches when i try and force it. I can tell when someone is being false or just being a lair. I can sense and feel vibes and emotions a lot more, i can tell and feel what kind of person they are with ease.. So i understand how you feel when people on her so openly lie, but i know they are just trying to fit in and be something special, they cant accept there own lives so they take on the lives of someone else..
I tend to avoid these types of people but its hard to do that as they are everywhere on this website, but there are some genuine people on here who are what they say they are, you just need to look harder and push past all the crap..
Haunted
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Permalink Reply by Lynda on
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-smiles softly- I have learned this already... Quite a few people have been talking to me from this site.
I know people lie to fit in... but there are some things they shouldn't lie about... as I've said before.. If you make yourself out to be special... it will only hurt you in the long run when your forced to realize your not... Mind you everyone is special in there own way.... they have the ability to do great things... they don't have to add more and more lies to what they can already do.
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Permalink Reply by Sarah on -
im an empath. i, like you, can tell from the way a person looks, their eyes, their body language, the energy they give off, the way they type, all of it...i feel other peoples emotions as if they were my own. its intense. but i love the built in bullshit detector. its a fantastic tool. you can hone it with practise and you can use shields if you need to block or filter everyone elses crap. there are definitely some real people on here. there are tons of RPers...but there are a few genuine people too. a lot of us dream about the same things, and see the same things and people when we've never met in this lifetime. im working on loving myself. its a really hard adjustment when you learn certain things about your past, and you learn to tap into the universe...but its nice in a way. less surprises i suppose. i like knowing things, then i dont feel so lost and confused all the time...
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Permalink Reply by psychotica on -
your right. that is all i have found so far too. But i get board and the pictures and poems are pretty good though.
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Permalink Reply by Evil among them on -
hi, no it's not a bunch of lies, but what would i know.., i only started 2 days ago. *sigh* i feel your pain and confusion (metoforically speaking) sorry i can't really feel your pain. (sorry :(...) anywayz i understand that you are confused about what they say and lie to your..screen?
the actual fact is you can't be a vampire but can change into a werewolf thats just going overboard and so not the truth, you can be half vampire and half werewolf, it can come from your bloodline to you. but thats just the funnyest thing i've ever read! (lol)i would know alot about them,(i don't lie..well.. to my mom.., so i'm a sinner, isn't every1?)check my profle and u can see 4 yourslef
bye 4 know!
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Permalink Reply by Alex on -
I have made quite a few good friends on this site. But hardly any of those who I trust claimed to be something they weren't. I kinda stay away from all the RPers and people who I think are liars, or I talk to them if I find them interesting but if they simply want to keep lying to me then I know where to stop.
I can usually tell when somebody is lying but sometimes there are other human emotions that conceal that intuitive and rational thought. Or sometimes I know that a level that the person I'm talking to is lying yet decide to play along for a while as long as it doesn't get too far. But in any case unless the person really bothers ME intentionally and directly I don't bother dissing their lies, I've learned to be patient with most kinds of things.
I suppose most people who lie and keep doing so are just doing it to get attention or some sort of common ground in a group of even bigger liars ¬_¬ But as the owner has pointed out in his blog, this site is for pretty much everyone who wants to be part of it. I believe it IS a game, but its your choice if you want to be a spectator or what position you wish to play..
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Permalink Reply by Claudia on -
I probably agree with you
but how do I know whether ur telling the truth? XP
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Permalink Reply by Lizzy on -
your not alone...i too am an empath, also known as a healer, i also can tell when people BS so again your not alone. this really didn't make me angry, it just made me feel sorry for you, because if you ready anyother discussion, this is Considered Roleplaying, in which this site is full of.. don't get angry or disappointed with them, in Psychology, they would be considered as someone who has alter egos, and mulitple personalities.
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