Permalink Reply by D, , on March 18, 2009 at 11:09pm
if you have a chance of the child being normal, would you really want to jepardise it? if it has teeth as a infant then worry but i seriously doubt that is goign to be the problem hun... think about wether you brest feed or not. course the bad chance would be your kid turns out worse off than you and your mate
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but give them a chance not as something of shame but as a chance, can you say trhings are normal after you say yuour a vampire? i dont think so . my own spawn is being treatred as sdhe is normal when shes a dhampir and has lots of problems im not going to have to do something about it . 6 year olds should not be on meds that is ridiculous. my ex is clearly in denial wants to think the babys normal. god forbid anyone get hurt around her . well moms 24 anhd still too young, shell bne able to see the difference as she raises her new 3 month old to the way my daughter is.
but right now she has a choice and i want her to live as normal as she can got her a little vampire book. haha. but havent ot given it to her yet. i was not thinking about this 25 years about but hell it was not even my thought 10 years but accidents happen remember kids wrap it no glove no love be responsible
D, ,
Hey sweetie congrats!!!! i'm with child too. since my parents are human and almost the rest of my family are vampires i got the taught both lifestyles. it is best to introduce it into it's vampire heritage straight away to avoid any incidents and fear or confusion. however, you should also teach it about the human lifestyle so they can fit in there and know how to act and what to do to avoid bloodlust ect. but that's my opinion you can do whatever you think would work best for your family. congrats again!
Permalink Reply by D, , on March 18, 2009 at 11:17pm
ok charly thats confusing... your parents were rpurley human but other family members?
seems strange you should be human vampire recessive hereditary speaking they should be as well not carring more information its like saying your 1,30ith cheroke indian...your parent told you that they were decedent from vampires but that they were human. if you have similar problems take my advice on it as i gave to her , keep the kid with freedom, if you raise them there is a good chance they will be very normal , wiat till they are older and out od the mine field be careful and they might jst turn out to be human enough
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i have been brought up with both my clan and my parents. i go to the clans olde house when i need to feed, hunt, breed or learn/train, but join my parents for the rest and while i appreciate your comments i would do the same for my child as has been done for me. it makes them better protected knowing what's out there and allows then to live a normal life if they wish it.
as for the hereditary thing, most of my family are vampires. but borne vampires are rare even between breeding between two vampires humans will come forward. it's like i explained in another forum, the thing that makes us what we are isn't a gene. it is like a family heirloom that chooses those who could survive and use it. like a necklace that gets passed down the family, if someone bred three children rather than one, only one would get the necklace, but it was chosen which one. so it's not about recessiveness or whatever. besides, all humans in my family know the truth apart from my brother (they knew because they were like my parents). my mother wanted my brother to be "normal" so we haven't told him what i am, but it gets hard to explain why i disapear, or why i visit other family more often than he does and why i seem so different to him. not only that but it puts him in danger not knowing what's going on. it's my parents who have made that decision for him, but it's not what i want for my baby. by introducing them to the human world they will have as much chance at being normal as any other child, only they will be more aware.
I agree with Charlotte. My parents were ignorant to the fact that I was a vampire child, and there were some problems. Take it slow, and raise your child to respect both beings, and control its urges. Congratulations, by the way.
Do yo uknow what it is yet?
Permalink Reply by D, , on March 18, 2009 at 11:20pm
there is also nothing saying this will be a vampire child , think about it, also try to avoid too much delbing into it you might see if they want to read the books etc or if they juyst have problemsif they have problems then say thisa is no doubt because of this , but id say be prepared but relax and just wait and see keep wanting to say her , but you never kow D, ,