Ok i left my bf cause he cheated on me with his and my worst enemy...grrr....anyway he says he still loves me eventho he is dating her and well i still like him bt i think thats only because he has my virginity bt w.e. So ik if i should try and get him back and if i do want him back how the hell do i do that ugh HELLP!!!!!!!
Wel, i am sailing through the same boat. My gf did the same to me wat ur guy did, i went into depression and it took me more than a year to recover. So i would suggest you to throw him out of ur lyf, i kno its easy to say it all but its very diffucult to do it, but again it depends on u whether you want to make ur life hell by thinking of all that stuff that existed b/w u n ur guy or u wana live ur life happily and achieve every damn success. Sorry, i mite be a bit harsh but that's the truth. U gotta accept it dear.
Take care.
na u can say wat ever and it won't efect me cause ik u r only trying 2 help and i never realy thought about that but i guess you are right for some reason i keep thinking that everything will turn out perfect just like some fairy tail but this is life not a sory, this is real and i need 2 quit treating it like its some game or something.....thanx
hm im goin thru the same thing right now but my bf is actin like a bee after some flowers n im the flowers im lost on wat to do also but im on the verge of just sayin enough of it and movin on so maybe you should do that too.
Leave him behind!!!! I went through the same thing. Guys are Gay!! (most of them ;) ) Except I didn't do what you did with him. haha I have gone back to mine soooo many times, its all ended the same. HEARTBREAK!!!! Take it from all my friends I have on my page, Katie, ♥Ma Love♥, Even Black Moon knows. So you know what I say to girl's like us. F*** IT!!! We don't need crap like this! No one does! I'm always there for support. So pleeeeaaassseee help me too! haha
Always here,
♥Romantic Despair♥
Well, i also used to compare my life to a happy ending fairy tale, but it turned out to be really ugly, yes i confess, i was kinda involve in some physical stuff wid her (not that much compared to u), and its not easy for even a guy to forget all those moments. Those memories haunted me day and nite. I went into depression, messed with my career, now i remember all that and i feel that i was really stupid to waste my life for her. Its more than a year since our breakup still sometimes i miss her. But i try to avoid all this stuff.
Try to focus on other things in life, like ur career. This way if u achieve massive success u wud be able to make him feel that he was a fool to leave u. And believe me, u gonna get someone who wud luv u crazily, who wud never cheat with you, and who wud make u the apple of his eye.
So don't think much about it and move on in life.
well first off if he cheated on you then he is not worthy of you and second if he does love you then he should dump the other chick and stay faithful to you...personally i would just say fuck it because if he asnt proven to you that he still loves you bybreaking up with you and begging you to come back to him then dont worry about him just forget him...