i have found that heart break is something that can occur over and over, and the heart is something that well might have it where there is no set amount of heart break. Or it may be that, your heart will break until you break.
Like the song by August burns red....there's pain in order for healing....and love is worth it and the scars...and scars remind you of what you did wrong and remind you to fix what you did wrong..in the old times warriors showed their scars proudly...but we are too vain now a days to realize that the scars we bear make us who we are...and love might hurt like hell and make you cry, make you want to die inside...but in the end when you find the person you truly love it's worth it...and you'll throw caution to the wind without having a second thought...
well.... love is usually happiness, is it not? so for a while your happy...
and why is it, now that we are domesticated, that we are hurt if our 'mate' leaves?
long time ago, though we would still have been sentient, did we even love?....
probably not... and seriously, loving is just a very strong version of liking...
and if you like someone/somethine (eg pet, friend/lover) and they leave, well you lose something you REALLY LIKED and you would be sad. in a way simple, in a way complicated....
We have to be happy because it happens, and not be sorry or mad becuase its over.
We enjoy love when we experience it, but we hate it when we leave it.
I think thats true.. I guess maybe we just have to try harder or were too good for relationships. i really don't know. But I do know my scars got bigger when I was with him...