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Why sex?

ok , why are you teenager who are under the age of 16 having sex??
like i know kids who are 12 and having sex!
WHY????? like it aint funn, then you will end up pregnant!!!
really is that what you want? i don't think so !
even tho there are abortion clinics, and adoption stuff. but still that really sucks for that kid!
Like my 14 year old cuzin just had a kid, yes, she is not keeping it, but her parents are! really how stupid are you , your going to watch you kid grow up , when it calls you sister?!?! that is really stupid.
and like my mom had me at 17, she couldn't graduate or anything cause i was there before her graduation. and my best friend ever, had to get and abortion, cause her parents didn't want her to go threw birth, and she even told me she regreated getting pregnant, or getting and abortion, she would put it up for adoption if she had it, but still she doesn't feel hole knowing that kid never got to see the color of the sky, and doing that abortion, fucked up her insides! she can't have kids anymore!!!! do you really want that, at the age of 14? Knowing that you can't have kids ever?!?!? i don't think so ... so think about it
I am kinda glad that i havn't had sex, even tho i am a guy, and gay. so i can't get preg, but there are the illnesses that go around from sex!!!! and man , that scares me the most, and lossing it to someone that will jsut walk away , and never look back. I am JUST ABOUT 18 and still a virgin watching alll these 12, 14 year olds trying to pick up girls, or flirting with guys, just to have sex! nothing else, sorry but that is horibble! i don't understand it, and i want to tell you kids, to wait! there is no reason to be sexuall active at this age!

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Permalink Reply by Nathan on May 28, 2009 at 9:45pm: condoms and birth control do shit! , my mom used a condom for me, it didn't rip or anything, and i am here, she used birthcontrol with my sis , and she is here, and used both from my bro, and he is here.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by CHARLIE on May 30, 2009 at 12:53am: The thing with condoms is that they are 96% effective. That means 4% of the time it fails. It can also happen when a guy puts the condom on the wrong way. Realises it and corrects, leaving fluids on the top to be inserted directly into the female.
The thing about birth control is that they have a chance of failing 1%. They don't work if you: are taking antibiotics, which cancel out the effect of the pill. They won't work if you are sick, as you can vommit out the pill leaving you unprotected. Sometimes women you have to take it exactly at the same time every time. If you don't you can become pregnant. Sometimes you are not the right weight, because believe it or not there IS a weight limit of the effectiveness of the pill. I believe it stops working at 170 kg.
I think if your mum does want to stop having children she can ask for your dad to have a vasectomy. Or she can have a hystoretomy. Though with a hystoretomy it can't be reversed; a vasectomy can.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Grey Wolf DarkHeart† on August 31, 2009 at 10:47am: Vasectomies don't always work to reverse them anyway...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by The Spook on May 28, 2009 at 11:11pm: You can't always prevent with just a condom. They aren't 100% effective against diseases and pregnancy. If you are going to have sex you have to be ready for it to happen, which means wait until you are old enough to be a mommie or daddy *nods*; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Sweet_Bitterness on May 28, 2009 at 11:21pm: well i know what you mean though i'm glad i'm les so even if i have sex i wont get pregnant but i still wont have sex at a young age and i do know how u feel i watched friends that i had in 5th grade that are now older 14-15 who were pregnant and abort their kid or it died... and thats sad it wasn't the baby's fault it was both the parents for not teaching their kids whats right and kids who decided to have sex for fun, plus the dad(kid) wont want it any more than the mom(kid) wants it.. and i'm 14 soon 15 and still a virgin till i either find my true love or get marry which i think is between age 25-30 not more nor less.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by RUBY BENTLEY on May 29, 2009 at 12:13am: yh i knw its really bad .. like most of my mates hav done .. it but i havnt yet.. im nearly 18 and havnt.. i want it 2 be special u knw.. :) my best mate lost it when she was like 13 but she hasnt done it since then.. and she says when she does do it again that will feel like her first time.... yh i jst think ur first time sld mean something and be safe ...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by ieuan wallis on May 29, 2009 at 12:43am: i honestly can't see the point of it when you are that age, i am waiting till i am an adult and then i'll decide, but i'm none to bothered by it to be honest; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SPyke on May 29, 2009 at 7:27am: yeah no kidding you should be happy to remain without until the right time.
no point in tangling yourself and soul with others like that.
kids too young to make contracts anyways. . .grumble grumble; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by DR3AM3R on May 29, 2009 at 8:10am: "giggles" UR SO RIGHT...I HAVE MABY......11 CUZINS IN MY FAMILY THAT ARE UNDER 17 AN HAVE BAYBES....THIS WORLD IS...SO FUCKIN MESSD UP.....LIL SLUTS IS WHAT THEY ARE.....; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by angie roberts on September 6, 2009 at 11:17am: ok THEY ARE NOT LIL SLUTS i was one of those kids that got pregnant at a young age i was 15(almost 16 missed 16 by 3 months) my partner was 18 i was forced to have an abortion(by my family) i wanted to have my baby i knew the consequences were i knew how to take care of my baby i had every thing under control but my family wouldnt let me keep it because they wanted me to keep taking care of my lil one( i cared for my lil brother and raised him for the first 2 years so i claim him as mine since i was forced to not have mine to take care of him he will be 3 in November) i wanted my baby my partner wanted the baby my family didnt and since i was under 16(the age of consent for sex with sombody over 3 years older than u)i didnt have a choice in keeping the baby and my partner was not able to be near me as he was and still is in jail i am now 18 i regret my family making me do it i could have run away i had places to live i see now all the things i should have and could have done instead of letting them force me to have the abortion i wish i hadnt had the abortion i think about it every day but i know the 2 things i think about every day and dont think "i wish i hadnt done that" having sex with the guy i got pregnant at 15 with and getting pregnant i only wish i had had the baby i had known the gut for 5 years b4 i had sex with him got pregnant with him i was in love with him i found out later that he had only gotten with me on a bet but had actually fell in love with me he proposed to me b4 he went to jail and b4 he even found out i was pregnant its not always a bad thing to get with and have sex with somebody at 15 younger than that is extremely stupid but by that age u should at least know what the repercussions of doing it are and you should be able to decide to have sex or not i do wish i had waited till i was 16 to do it but i dont regret doing it its not always a bad thing to get pregnant at that age i had been on drugs i had been drinking and i was smoking cigarettes all since i was 10 and the day i thought i might be pregnant i quit all of it the moment the thought crossed my mind i stopped it all i didnt pick up a cigarett till after the forced abortion because of me getting pregnant i was able to quit because sombody else depended on me i havnt picned back up any alcohol or drugs that i was doing then because i dont want to find out that im pregnant some day and be doing them again i was 9 weeks 3 days into my pregnancy when i found out i dont want to find out im pregnant again (if i can even have kids i have medical problems piled on me by the ton) and end up having the baby this time and it having problems because of my mistakes being pregnant can be am eye opening experience and can put a kid on the right road or it can ruin a kids life if they dont have help from there family same with an abortion not having a baby can help a kid get on the right road so that when they do get pregnant again there ready for it or like me it can mess with the head enough that they dont function they cry and cry instead but nobody that has sex or gets pregnant at 15 or older is a lil slut the ones younger than that just kneed better parents if there having sex b4 15 then there parents kneed to be checked into to see whats wrong with the parenting / the parents DR3AM3R i thought the same as u did till i did have sex and did get pregnant now i understand some of it i dont get all of the reasons people that are younger do it but i get some of the reasons talk to some of your cusins and find out there reasons for 1 having sex 2 for not keeping safer in having the sex and there for getting pregnant 3 for keeping the baby 4 ask them if they could go back and not have the babie would they and 5 if they could go back and not have sex when they did would they maby after talking to them you will get it why some choose to have sex at a young age me i loved him he may not have moved me till after but i loved him its been 2 1/2 years and im still with him and i still love him as much as the day i had sex with him if not more my baby would be 2 in febuary i was far enough along i was tolf that if it was going to be a boy it would have been starting to get the anatimy to be a boy but it wasnt i was told after my abortion that if i had kept my maby it would have been a girl i had picked 2 names b4 i was forced to give my baby up 1 guy name and 1 girl i will keep my baby girls name in my heart for ever her name would have been (elizibith Sarah mareach maree-ann Roberts) i gave her the last name i was taking on and am still waiting to take on but that i already go by which is Roberts so if u dont know the reasons for the decisions that each person makes dont judge them all the same sorry im being kind of a bitch about u saying that but as u can see im a lil sore on that still just dont judge every body that has a kid at a young age like there sluts find out each persons reason for doing something b4 u assume that there all the same some are just sluts but some arent angie ROBERTS :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Haunted Beauty on May 29, 2009 at 4:37pm: The way i see it is, if they are going to have sex at a young age and fall pregnant then it fall all on them.. If they aren't mature enough to take every precaution that the lovely doctors and scientist have come up with for safe sex then they shouldn't be having it or speaking about it. If they blush at the word penis or get scared of pregnancy then it shouldn't even be on there minds. Sex is for people who are mature enough to be able to take care of them self's and if anything goes wrong not to be scared of going to the doctor and getting a pap smear or to speak about sex.

Young girls who have sex are at fault not anyone else, they are just falling in line with the rest of them and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

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Permalink Reply by Grey Wolf DarkHeart† on September 7, 2009 at 10:09am: I tihnk not always, cuz what about the ones who hae druggie parents (or just one)
what if (soz, but what-if's can still happen)
what if the mother always had guys over for sex, and never taught the son.daughter something, and the son made someone really youg pregnant or the girl became pregnant really young, it's not really the kid's fault, they think it's alright, they never knew anything but their parents always having sex so tyhey think it's okay, but don't realiuse the parent is using protection, so they do it unprotected, no knowing better, and the kid becomes pregnant/makes someone pregnant; ▶ Reply to This