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Why sex?

ok , why are you teenager who are under the age of 16 having sex??
like i know kids who are 12 and having sex!
WHY????? like it aint funn, then you will end up pregnant!!!
really is that what you want? i don't think so !
even tho there are abortion clinics, and adoption stuff. but still that really sucks for that kid!
Like my 14 year old cuzin just had a kid, yes, she is not keeping it, but her parents are! really how stupid are you , your going to watch you kid grow up , when it calls you sister?!?! that is really stupid.
and like my mom had me at 17, she couldn't graduate or anything cause i was there before her graduation. and my best friend ever, had to get and abortion, cause her parents didn't want her to go threw birth, and she even told me she regreated getting pregnant, or getting and abortion, she would put it up for adoption if she had it, but still she doesn't feel hole knowing that kid never got to see the color of the sky, and doing that abortion, fucked up her insides! she can't have kids anymore!!!! do you really want that, at the age of 14? Knowing that you can't have kids ever?!?!? i don't think so ... so think about it
I am kinda glad that i havn't had sex, even tho i am a guy, and gay. so i can't get preg, but there are the illnesses that go around from sex!!!! and man , that scares me the most, and lossing it to someone that will jsut walk away , and never look back. I am JUST ABOUT 18 and still a virgin watching alll these 12, 14 year olds trying to pick up girls, or flirting with guys, just to have sex! nothing else, sorry but that is horibble! i don't understand it, and i want to tell you kids, to wait! there is no reason to be sexuall active at this age!

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Permalink Reply by xoX~ëscåpê~thë~wörld~Xox on July 29, 2009 at 8:24am: I'm 15 and haven't lost my virginity...and im not doing it anytime soon.
your right, i think its soo stupid how kids at our age and younger are having sex..
stupid stupid people; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Grey Wolf DarkHeart† on August 15, 2009 at 6:47am: I agree completely; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Tashia on July 29, 2009 at 8:36am: Yeah I totally agree with you. Im not a virgen, but Im pretty much a lesbian :/ So of course i can't get pregnant. However, sometimes i wish i would of waited for the true love of my life. I fucked up by fucking some bitch who really didnt care about me :/ Then i met her...my true love. I wish i would have saved my self for her, instead of that cheating whore.
(She kinda forced it upon me the first time, "Lets just do it.." and i was like "No. I want to wait." Then she pulled this crap about "You dont love me, blah blah blah. It will bind us for eternity. Dont you want that? blah.." So i gave in, and it honestly hurt. I felt no connection, i just felt like a rag doll being tossed around, and played with roughly. I cried, she didnt do that wipe your tears crap, she kept going!!! >_< And in all honesty, i should of just said "Well if you love me, you'll wait till im fucking ready.")

Sometimes, when we did have sex, i would compare it to my exes. Which is horrible if you look at it.
Infact, people who are more likely to have sex with multiple people, and decide to get married, divorce later on becuase the sex is bad. They also give them diseases such as aids, stds, etc. Then their kids get it through DNA.

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Permalink Reply by amrichXD on July 30, 2009 at 12:16am: hehe i know that's totally stupid...i mean kid is having kid... im 15 and im virgin....and i don't intend to have sex till i get marred:S i know for some people that's OMGGGG ..but most relationships end after sex....but if you love someone that doesn't mean you have to have sex with him to prove your love ...still my religion is totally forbidding sex before marriage .....so i don' t care what people think about it i wont change my self ....; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Grey Wolf DarkHeart† on August 15, 2009 at 6:50am: I mightn't wait till I'm MARRIED but I would wait till I'm about 18 or 20 AND use protection.... well, I don't really think i'll be that great a mother and I suck with looki ng after little kids and entertainin them.... so ofcourse I'd use protection!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Arana FM--Kaulitz on July 30, 2009 at 12:25am: i dont get it either,its fucking scary.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Bandite on July 30, 2009 at 1:31am: Wow thanks i never thought of that i guess its because ever1 else is, but i don't have to.I had planned to but now that you say that i guess i will hold of on that.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Nathan on July 30, 2009 at 3:17am: It is also your desicion.
If you think you are ready for
the conesquences of having sex,
such as Childern, STIs
and you have a good head on your shoulders
than yes, go have your first time.
See i have been waiting too loss mine
cause i don't want to be a virgin, and only have
guys want me, to take my virginity.
So i have found someone to love, and
someone i can trust. I mean
i am ready, but i am not ready.
It is a very scary thingss!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Black whisper on August 2, 2009 at 9:53pm: i agree...
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Permalink Reply by xxx_DaRk_WrItEr_xxx on August 6, 2009 at 8:47am: Okay i have to agre even though my sis ary has got 4 kids.its sad.but if you get preg and have the kid you wont regrete it most of the time.youll love the kid and youll be happy to have it.
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Permalink Reply by Grey Wolf DarkHeart† on August 15, 2009 at 6:58am: Yeah, but I don't really want a kid.... they use lots of money (these days one of the most important things you need to survive is money, and has been for how long now? long time anyway)
and the fact that I probably won't be that great a mum, and as I said earlier, i suck at looking after little kids, and suck at keeping them happy and they don't really like me.....
even if I do love them lots, well, how fun will it be for me to try my absolute best to entertain a little kid, keep them happy, but also pretty well trained... maybe not perfect... and well, you get my point, I don't want to have a kid!!!! or more!!!; ▶ Reply to This