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Counciler Test
Give advice for ONE of the following issues."(1)My Father beats me,and my mother doesn't belive me.My horse went blind and now i have to put it down and i can't....not after i just put my dog down." "(2)My dad saw me waiting for a friend late at night.my friend never showed and my dad is calling me a whore! My mom is cheating on my dad and even she doesn't understand.They are kicking me out and i have no where to go and no job." "(3) I'm cheating on my boyfriend with another guy,i like my bf fine enough but this other guy has a lot of things i like in a man.I love how he pays attention to me even though he has his own issues.He knows i have a bf.He dumped his gf to be wit me,But i don't wanna leave my bf for him....." These are purely fictional suggestions of thing ppl might need advice withe.choose 1,2,or 3 and give your best advice.DO NOT TAKE THIS TEST IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE A COUNCILER OR CAN NOT COMMIT TO IT.Thank you and good luck.
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Permalink Reply by Elisabeth(Unwanted,Uncared) on -
Advice to the third one. Ask them both "How do you care about me? What would you do for me? If I ever left what would you do?" And just keep asking them questions. Then see which one you like better, but if that doesn't work out then think. "Do I like the other guy more? Will it last with me and my boyfriend, or longer with me and the other guy?"
Alright this is some advice I can give without acctual talking to someone. So if you can give me a chance I can give great advice.
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Permalink Reply by daionix blackwolf FC2nd leader on -
Bravo!your advice was on subject and kind hearted and not judgemental.Most importently you gave an alternative option of advice incase your peace failed or wasn't enough.You pass with flying colors.But before i promote you to admin and have you create 3+ rooms to council in.....i have to ask.Do you have the time,patients,commitment to council on this site?ppl may need more than one session and later (not now as we have no ppl in need) we may be head deep in ppl who need advice.do you still want to help?
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Permalink Reply by Elisabeth(Unwanted,Uncared) on
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Sure I will still help. So I have to create 3+ rooms? And yes I have time, I have patients, and I will commitment to council on this page.
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Permalink Reply by daionix blackwolf FC2nd leader on
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ok.and yup 3 rooms for now.
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Permalink Reply by BLOODY ROSE LOVESICK on -
this is to #2: Ask them the reason they are kicking you out. Look you dad in the eye and tell him that you are not a whore. Sit down with your mom and talk to her, it will work. Keep a journal and put everything down in it that you want your parents to understand and have them read it every week. And if they still decide to kick you out, look at them and tell them how much you love them and tell them thank you for supporting me all these years and let them think about it. Explain to them your problems and they will listen.
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Permalink Reply by daionix blackwolf FC2nd leader on
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Your advice is based around semi-understanding parents,when giving advice in the field assume mid and worse case senario's and advice for both.In anycase i like how you advise for a coping mechanism (journel).Its a great way to relieve pressure and acceses stress.Bravo you pass.If you can commit to this add 3 rooms.
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Permalink Reply by BLOODY ROSE LOVESICK on
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thanks and i will try harder next time I wasn't really thinking straight
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Permalink Reply by daionix blackwolf FC2nd leader on
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i understand....you did fine.
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