whats the point?

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Permalink Reply by Grey Wolf DarkHeart† on November 6, 2009 at 9:16pm

What, would you rather everyone be mindless creatures who don't care about anything? almost nothing would reproduce and SURVIVE if they didn't have a heart, didn't care about anyone else, or anything, for that matter. we wouldn't have laws, or cops, so there'd be far more hate, killing, rape, being beat up etc than there already is....
okay, sorry if that seems kinda cold, don't mean to be, but if you think about it, that's the truth.
If they walk out they probably don't deserve you... if he goes out with someone very shortly after you, but hadn't liked them while they were with you, then that means they NEED a rebound girl, someone basically cuz they NEED someone to survive easier... but the poor rebound chic will prbably have her heart broken too...
if the guys go out with a crapload of people quite quickly, then, tip: don't go out with them, they'll probably just have you just for a girlfriend for a short while and probably break your heart like he probably did everyone elses.
okaay... reading over that, well, yeah I guess the whole thing seems kinda cold, mean, and sorry about that....
not meant to be.
also, don't let anyone in that wants to come in, biut don't block everyone out either, but there's some people out there that you just should block out, but... well, not everyone.....

and soz that long comment probably ain't all that hlepful, but, well, I tried.... and probably failed. miserably... but if it does help, well, You're welcome!

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Permalink Reply by oneofakindvampire on November 8, 2009 at 5:34pm

yeah dont worry it does help. what hurt me more was the fact that we were engagged and still he walked out of my life and cheated on me with about 3 other people

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Permalink Reply by RavenTusme Kenshinheart on November 15, 2009 at 12:40am

the point comes with age
we all lost people we loved we been thrown into the dust beading and wondering y?
to those we love to some their is a point to d round them self with another to avoid famley ans so forth just so we can love some one and they can love us back kinda like a good friend that sometimes has to back u up or who will hold u when u need it but Mosley cuz every one wants someone to love an no that they are loved but think people are attracted to the way u act so if u get an ass for a bf or a guy get a beach for a gf it cuz they just happened to attract tat kind of person most of it is all u yes i despise people for my own reasons and that's that but even i no the more u put urslef out their the more u learn and the more u grow up and become a better or worse person in life if u give up u may never find the one and only but then u say what if i don't have one than i say ur wrong for u would not be asking whats the point if u did not have another half out their
if u fell theirs no point thatn simple just stop dating people and work on becoming who u are make something of ur self prov to ur self that by putting ur self out their it made u a better person show the world that u can stand on ur own show them u can live show them that u r u and did it on ur own and if u find a love on they grate if not o well keep to ur dreams u don't need a love now waite till u no more abu ur slef find out who u are not what it will be like with a love u have all the time in th world to find a love in this life or the next but u realy only get one chance to mold ur self into what u want to base ur being on not with religion or that bs but with who u are am i nice am i worthy to stand on my own can i be myself can i hold my own and once u can do that u find a love worth having that knows u can stand on ur own and will gladly stand by ur side and be a punching bag and a set of arms u can fall back in an no that ur safe do not look for it now for others are still finding them selfs as well waite till the time is right when u stand on ur own do not fall for the words of one who thinks they no who they are his or her words may be true now but lader they tund and say they need space to find them self thus making it a waist of ur time so why fall for one who does no no who they are find one who no them self to a good extent and can hold their own as well then match with them and make a life with them if their right for u but someday u find u other half their is a point to life and love and why we do the things we do and that point is what u make it not me not ur friends not god not the deavel it's all u life is 10% what u do and 90% on how u react to it

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Permalink Reply by MeRfY* on November 15, 2009 at 7:18am

I second that.....I dont see one either.. but when someone does find the point tell me as well....
Sorry i couldnt help u.. Im in the same Boat=/
And i usaully can give advice,but not really this time..
I seem to know the words that i should take my own advice.
But when you feel so low you tell ur self i told u so
But u wanna lie to urself and say its ok when ur not.
I know u have to get over people .
But well, some people cant-and i maybe ranting but.
Hey if you go write about it -it gets out something right.
BUt then after while, u start missing them and crap.
Sighs. I hate when it makes you feel like crap when it happens.
When they try and break ur heart.
I would much rather live in a tree away from the world but that doesnt sovle anything now does it.
Lol i dont know. the world is a cruel.place
Tough it up or be weak.
The only options in life.
Sniffs.
oh well sighs.
Im sorry for ranting,i just had to say something-lol

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