okay this might take a while
so, there's this guy i know through karate and i've know him for almost a year now. he told me he'd split with his girlfriend and we we're both at this blackbelt camp thing 2 weeks ago; suprise suprise, we got off. alot.
he says he has no phone and he wont reply to my bebo and facebook comments. just been on his supposed ex's pages and theres pictures of them 'together'
now i dont think they we're ever apart and it's makiing me feel like crap because he used me and lied to me and oh my god it's killing me!
i saw him last weekend and he had plenty of chance to tell me but no he says he'll call me when he can. i feel so stupid right now!!! please help.
Permalink Reply by Alex on August 1, 2009 at 11:21pm
gosh.. um yeah i know how bad that would be. i'm sorry. well speaking from experience i guess one thing you could do is just ignore him and not bother yourself with him because well, if hes having a laugh about you then you're only making it worse still trying to talk to him and stuff. well an alternative would be to tell him off in front of his friends and THEN ignore him..but i wouldn't suggest that ¬_¬ umm or if you think he still actually cares about your friendship even a little(if you were good enough friends before and/or he actually feels bad about what he did) then maybe try to talk things over but if he continues to avoid you then just ignore him. but make the decision on what will be really best for YOUR future instead of what you wish things were.. you get what i mean?
either way i think its his loss anyway n ur much better than to deserve that kinda crap. and theres only this much you can bother yourself with someone who doesn't give a damn.
that probably wasnt much help but you can talk to me anytime just leave a comment, i really need to sleep right now though so g'night for now *hugs* take care